Nate the Great!
I'm stealing Annie's spouse tag! :) Since my husband has yet to have any interest in starting/contributing to blogging, I'll just embarrass him by talking about him (plus, I have nothing to do at work right now....)!
What is his name? Nathan Andrew (which he would have you all know, means "manly") Frakes
How long have you been married? 20 months
How long did you date? 2 months, then we were engaged for 3 (look at that - we've been married 4 times as long as we knew each other before we got married!)
How old his he? 23
Who eats more? Probably me, which is pathetic. In fact, last year I gained weight and he lost. No good.
Who said I love you first? We still have a dispute about this I think. He said it in a text message (so maybe that doesn't count?), so he says I said it first. But honestly, I think we just can't remember.
Who is taller? Nate
Who can sing better? If one of us is actually trying? We both tend to belt horribly, but I probably sing better when I'm trying.
Who is smarter? Definitely Nate.
Who does the laundry? Alisa (though Nate does help fold when he has time)
Who does the dishes? Both, but mostly me because I have more time (and despise it less).
Who pays the bills? Alisa. Nate reminds and advises and asks how much money we have.
Who sleeps in the right side? Looking at the bed: me
Who mows the lawn? We both really like to. Nate used to own a lawnmowing business, so he usually does the edge trimming, but I really like to so I don't let him have all the fun!
Who cooks dinner? Usually me. Occasionally when I'm sleeping on Sunday and he's starving, Nate will make something. He's a much better cook though. If he had more time, I think he would more. He actually wants to send me to culinary school someday....That shows what kind of cook I am.
Who drives? Either. Depends on who wants to.
Who is more stubborn? Define stubborn - less willing to give in to views that are not his own? Nate. Actually any way you define it, it's Nate.
Who kissed who first? Nate kissed me first.
Who asked who out first? My mom asked Nate to take me out. Does that count? :) He got my number from my mom and asked me out first.
Who proposed? Nate, of course. And he did it one of the few ways I had always thought I wanted to be proposed to. How did he know? :)
Who has more friends? Definitely Nate. His friends have become my friends and that's about all I have (that we spend time with).
Who is more sensitive? Definitely me. I'm getting better at not getting offended, though.
Who has more siblings? Me by 2.
Who wears the pants? Nate does, but I give advice and make suggestions, which he's great about listening to.
-Elizabeth Stone
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
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Thursday, February 21, 2008
Since my last post delivered so much commentary, I thought I would post something that will probably not get a single comment. Maybe one or two. :)
I saw this idea on someone else's blog and just tried it with the book I had, so here goes:
Instructions:
1. Grab the nearest book (that is at least 123 pages long).
2. Open to p. 123.
3. Go down to the 5th sentence.
4. Type in the following 3 sentences.
(There was an instruction to tag five people, but I figure if you want to do this, you will)
I will be amazed at anyone who can name this novel (except Nathan and AJ), but you can try!
"Born to the prospect of such affluence! I cannot conceive of a situation more deplorable. The interest of two thousand pounds -- how can a man live on it!"
Posted by Alisa Frakes at 2:12 PM 8 comments
Friday, February 15, 2008
Men are from Mars.....
I used to mock my husband for always talking about this radio talk show host he listens to all the time. Well, here I am, talking about the same talk show radio host. His name is Dennis Prager and yesterday he did an interview with the guy who wrote the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," as well as a new book entitled "Why Mars and Venus collide" (I think that's the title). Anyway, John Gray, the author, basically reaffirmed VERY well the difference between men and women.
I am amazed that there are people in this world who believe men and women are basically the same. I don't mean to offend anyone, so please don't be if you believe that. But here's the thing: you see it everywhere. Little kids whose parents don't want them to be part of the stereotypical males/female roles will give their sons dolls and daughters trucks.
And you know what always happens?
The little boys turn the dolls into guns or swords and the little girls give their trucks names, tuck them into bed and invite them to tea parties! If you think about it, even homosexual couples have gender roles. There is always a more masculine partner and more feminine partner. Why is that?
Because IT'S NATURAL.
Anyway, that's not at all what the talk show segment is about. I just had to get on that soapbox for a minute. The talk show is mostly about the differences in how men and women deal with stress. It must be true because I found myself chuckling the whole way through at the TRUTH of what John Gray was saying!
Anyway, if you have the time, it's really interesting and worth the time - the whole segment is just over 30 minutes, but even listening to the first 10 is beneficial.
So here it is: Mars vs. Venus
Posted by Alisa Frakes at 2:50 PM 9 comments
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Hey, for those of you thinking you'd rather not vote in November because you don't agree with either candidate (and all of you that are interested in the fate of this country....as I once again am - my resignation is over) read this article: Better than the alternative...
By the way, Michael Reagan is Ronald Reagan's oldest son. I think that gives a little more credence to this article.
Here's a cute little picture to go with it:
Posted by Alisa Frakes at 2:22 PM 1 comments
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Strike is over!
This is completely contradictory to Shan's great post, but I thought I'd share the news: the Writer's Guild of America Strike is over! Do you realize what this means?!?
Great shows are back from reruns.
And probably better than ever since writers have had 14 weeks to come up with amazing plot ideas!!

Posted by Alisa Frakes at 2:27 PM 3 comments
Friday, February 08, 2008
For the depressed...
I talked to my brother and sister-in-law last night about Romney's decision to suspend from the race. They mentioned how upset they were by it and I realized I wasn't as much as I thought I would be. I think I owe it all to Adam Johnson. If you want to feel better about the whole political situation, check out his blog. The link to it is in my links under Brett Bubbles :) -- don't ask.
Posted by Alisa Frakes at 10:09 AM 1 comments
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
I resign.
I just wanted to let you all know, I am resigning from my interest in politics.
I don't like being an angry person and after yesterday, I'm just angry. Every news website -- actually nearly EVERY website -- I've seen today is just MAKING ME ANGRY. So I resign. No more politics.
But you're welcome to let me know if something good happens....
Something that might make me change my mind about finding a new country to live in.
Posted by Alisa Frakes at 10:18 AM 7 comments
Tuesday, February 05, 2008
Politics...usually not my topic....
My sister AJ and I have been talking politics a lot over the past couple of days. Since I'm married to a political freak :) I have learned a lot about the candidates and issues this time around and am actually amazed at how opinionated I am about the candidates. Basically (and I'm sorry if this offends anyone) I can't understand how any morally descent person could vote for McCain. Even if you agree with some of his policies/ideas/etc., his life resembles Bill Clinton's too closely for comfort (except McCain shows no remorse...). I know people say you shouldn't let a man's personal life affect your vote for him, but I can't help it (plus, I disagree with some of his views on issues). Anyway, AJ showed me this website that gives information about each of the candidates. If you have time, take a look. I would say specifically look at the difference in the bios for Romney and McCain. The stark difference between them really just baffles me. Anyway...that's my rant... :) Here's the website: Presidential Election 2008 Candidates
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Monday, February 04, 2008
The Miracle of Babies
Read this article: How my twins saved my life. My jaw literally dropped at how amazing this story was. Enjoy!
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Succession of a Prophet
I have loved reading what others have posted about President Hinckley and can honestly say "ditto" to everything I've read. He was and incredible man and touched my life in more ways than I can say. I've thought a lot in the last week about things he taught in my youth that completely affected the very path of my life. What an incredible man!
While I honor President Hinckley, I have a slightly different purpose for this post. It is a VERY long post and I won't be at all offended if it's not all read, but I think it's important stuff, so if you have time, please read it. This morning I googled President Hinckley and read a news article in the Salt Lake Tribune about who would succeed President Hinckley. These are the words of the article: "President Hinckley died Sunday; if tradition holds, the first counselor will take the helm."
I figured that a Utah newspaper, however liberal it may be, would at least be able to get the facts right about the MAJOR religion of the state. For some reason, it really frustrated me and maybe it's because during our ward's testimony meeting yesterday, people seemed to intentionally avoid saying that Elder Monson would be the next prophet and president of the Church. That got me thinking that maybe people don't know the doctrine of succession in the Church and perhaps many do think tradition has something to do with it.
So the purpose of this post is to enlighten those who may not know this doctrine and maybe it will reach the Salt Lake Tribune since I have no idea how I would write a letter to the editor...
The next prophet in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not, as some people think, the first counselor in the First Presidency. In fact, when the prophet passes away, the First Presidency is dissolved. Those of you who watched President Hinckley's funeral noticed that Thomas S. Monson introduced himself not as President Monson, but as ELDER Monson. An article on BYU's website that Nate pointed out to me explains really well the principle of succession. Click here to read that. The article states that everything is done in seniority. Elder Monson is the senior apostle, which is why he will be the next prophet - not because he was the first counselor. I think there is this idea that the next prophet is chosen by the twelve apostles through revelation -- that's what I used to think at least. However, that is not the case. Nate was telling me about something he heard -- and of course I've forgotten who said it -- that the Lord has created this principle of succession for a reason. If he doesn't want the next most senior apostle to be the president of the church, then basically (and I don't mean for this to sound callous) that person will no longer be alive to fulfill that responsibility. That's how the Lord handles succession of leadership.
Another interesting position in all of this is that of Elder Boyd K. Packer. To be perfectly honest, I didn't understand this, so that's why I'm posting about it now that my husband has enlightened me. I think this is important to know, especially since we're in this situation and it really is doctrine, so we should know it. Anyway, Elder Packer has been the Acting President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. He wasn't actually the President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. President Monson was. But since President Monson was in the First Presidency, he couldn't act as the president of the quorum. So Elder Packer acted for him, basically. Now that President Hinckley has passed away and the First Presidency has been dissolved, Elder Packer is no longer the acting president of the quorum.
One final important key to all of this (no pun intended) is that of Priesthood keys. Elder Nelson wrote an article concerning this idea that can be found at LDS.org and is entitled "Keys of the Priesthood." The President of the Church (the most senior apostle) is the only person on the earth who holds all the keys of the Priesthood. The 12 apostles, combined, hold all the keys, but the current prophet is the only man who holds ALL of them. After the death of the President of the Church, the Apostles meet and bestow all the keys on the new leader of the Church.
I hope this was as clear as I wanted it to be. I think the SL Tribune article really got to me and I just wanted to clarify as much for myself as for all of you. Please, if you hear someone discussing this matter, join in and share what you know. As silly as it may sound, just knowing all this and learning more about it because we're in the midst of it has strengthened my testimony of this principle. The Lord knows what he's doing with his Church on this earth. He will never let his children be led astray. In fact, President Woodruff said in the 61st Semiannual General Conference "The Lord will never permit me or any other man who stands as President of this Church to lead you astray. It is not in the programme. It is not in the mind of God. If I were to attempt that, the Lord would remove me out of my place, and so He will any other man who attempts to lead the children of men astray from the oracles of God and from their duty." How true that is. I believe that the succession of leaders of the church is the Lord's way of preventing what President Woodruff talked about.
Sorry this is so long. If you have any further insights, please share! That way, maybe I won't feel too preachy. :)
Posted by Alisa Frakes at 10:25 AM 5 comments